Every relationship goes through ups and downs, and not every behaviour change necessarily means cheating, so it’s important not to jump to conclusions.
However, if you are having that sinking feeling, there are a few common signs your partner is cheating that you can look out for.
What are some Common Signs Your Partner is Cheating?
If you do suspect your partner is cheating, it’s easy to quickly jump to conclusions and become overwhelmed with feelings of betrayal and confusion. It can also make things feel complicated, especially if you have children, shared assets, or you’ve been together for a long time.
If you want to know how to tell if your partner is cheating, these are a few signs you can look out for. But remember, none of these count as concrete evidence, so take these signs with a grain of salt.
- They are protective of their phone, laptop or computer
- They often have last-minute or unexplained plans
- You notice them being defensive or secretive about their behaviour
- They are more or less affectionate than usual
- You catch small lies or inconsistencies
- They accuse you of being paranoid
It’s common for cheating partners to feel guilty about their actions, which is why they can sometimes turn to defensiveness, become more or less affectionate, or sometimes even gaslight their partner and accuse them of being paranoid.
If you have experienced any of these signs or something similar, you are completely within reason to suspect your partner of being unfaithful.
What Can You Do Next?
If you’ve recognised these signs your partner is cheating, you might be wondering what you can do next. It’s completely natural to feel anger, pain, and a deep lack of trust with your partner. However, it’s important to avoid acting impulsively. You have a few options moving forward, depending on your situation.
If it feels safe to, you could have a calm discussion with your partner about your concerns and see if they give you an honest answer about the situation. However, be aware that confronting it head-on could lead to defensiveness or further secrecy.
If it doesn’t feel safe to speak to your partner, you might consider trying to find some more concrete evidence before making a decision. But remember, looking through your partner’s messages is against the law and could lead to legal repercussions.
While some choose to wait and see if any solid evidence comes to light, another option is to hire a private investigator who can take a more detailed look into the situation. The truth can be painful, but it’s the first step toward finding clarity, and it can empower you to make the right decision moving forward.
Speak to a Lyonswood Investigator
If you suspect your partner is cheating and would like to find clarity, Lyonswood Investigations can explore your concerns discreetly on your behalf. We’re accustomed to dealing with situations like yours, and we can uncover the truth without sacrificing your integrity.
We’re here to help you find answers. Speak to our team to investigate a cheating spouse today.
